A bad Italian story. A 10-year-old child remained practically alone, with his mother killed with 23 pounded by his father and with his paternal grandparents hanged for the reputational abyss, is said so, in which they were finished.
A feminist, Anguillara’s, where the tragedies get stuck in sequence and where we have to reflect not only on the victim, Federica, killed and hidden, and the executioner, the husband, who is now in prison is seen because he is also afraid of his extreme gesture.
As there is the suffering of those who are linked to the victim, there is also that of those who are linked to the murderer. A father and a mother, a small entrepreneur and an ex-poliziotta, councilor immediately dismissaria after the fact, who decide to end it.
Secondary victimization, this is the technical term used by legal practitioners. No pietas on social media and too accurate reconstructions, we say so generically, of the media. The fear of leaving the house so as not to be the target of insults.
Ours is now a global village where everyone knows everything and where everyone judges without limits, precisely. Without thinking about who’s left. To those who are to blame, to those who suffer for that guilt for losing a loved one, to those who suffer because they do not accept that they have put to the world and educated what then turned out to be a “monster”. We do not think of the most fragile, the children, the ones who have nothing and do not even have mental structures to understand.
Fortunately there are many associations in Italy prepared, with qualified people to assist minors in the present and in the construction of a future. The company must respond with responsibility to these situations: We mean the state, the institutions, what we call a mature democracy.
And since it seems that Claudio Carlomagno’s father is not involved in any way in the affair, in short, the hypothesis of having helped his son to hide the body of the daughter-in-law, then we are all, people who make up the society mentioned above, that we must be careful.
Let’s not always hide behind the Internet or some chronicler too aseptic. It is the community that must recover that ancient sensitivity, that value handed down, that makes relationships a web of survival and respect.
I know, they’re general intent, but maybe by reading these lines someone will wonder if he could have done something to break all that pain, that anger, that loneliness. Femicides should not always be delicacies announced and always completed, and others around are not only witnesses, in the strict sense and broad sense of the term.
Let us redeem then with that child, who needs everything but also of all. All of us.
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